Saturday, November 28, 2009

How Can It Work?



Hey people...

I had a conversation with a friend of mine about friends being intimate ( can you follow me lol ).
I'n convinced that you can never just stay friends, but my friend disagrees.
She says that it is possible.
Her explanation is: If you both agree to stay friends than that's what you will be only diffrence is the sex..
Well...
First of all...if i agree to be friends with someone, i don't see myself having sex with that person.
I do believe that you can become very close and it might involve into something else, like a relationship.

A friend is someone you like to hang with, chill with, and do fun things with.
If you decide to add sex to the list, you can not tell me that it's because you're just needy or you don't have anyone else to sex with.
You do it because you're attracted to the person sexually ( besides all the other fun things you do together ).
So now you're having sex with your friend..

Is it still just a friendship? Are friends supposed to be sexually attracted to each other?

I know i might be a bit dramatic and over sensitive so i have to stick to my friend rules!

BUT!

Why would you have to assure or convince yourself that you will stay friends afterwards?
That to me is a sign, cause if it's just sex to both why wouldn't you stay friends ? ( cause y'all know its wrong lol )

Listen...
If people could separate their emotion that easy, everybody would be friends with their ex lol

Hey it's hard to fight temptation...i know it is ( trust me )

But it is possible people..if you really try :)


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