Song Of the Day!

Hi peeps..
This is my song for the day!
Some might wonder why it's the song for today?
Just listen...
It's a song for everyday and especially certain moments lol

Womens Pes Competition!

Hi people i'm back!
I'm on my Ps3 again, and i was wondering...
I love soccer ( y'all know by now ).
Everytime i play on the ps3, i play pes ( pes10 at the moment ).
For those who don't know, Pes stands for Pro Evolution Soccer!!!!!!
The best soccergame out there!
I just love it!
So i was thinking..why not set up an online competition ( that's an option within the game ).
I would love to play against other females all over the world.
So to all you women out there playing pes ,send me a note!

On that note, i think i have to practice some more lol

How Can It Work?

Hey people...

I had a conversation with a friend of mine about friends being intimate ( can you follow me lol ).
I'n convinced that you can never just stay friends, but my friend disagrees.
She says that it is possible.
Her explanation is: If you both agree to stay friends than that's what you will be only diffrence is the sex..
Well...
First of all...if i agree to be friends with someone, i don't see myself having sex with that person.
I do believe that you can become very close and it might involve into something else, like a relationship.

A friend is someone you like to hang with, chill with, and do fun things with.
If you decide to add sex to the list, you can not tell me that it's because you're just needy or you don't have anyone else to sex with.
You do it because you're attracted to the person sexually ( besides all the other fun things you do together ).
So now you're having sex with your friend..

Is it still just a friendship? Are friends supposed to be sexually attracted to each other?

I know i might be a bit dramatic and over sensitive so i have to stick to my friend rules!

BUT!

Why would you have to assure or convince yourself that you will stay friends afterwards?
That to me is a sign, cause if it's just sex to both why wouldn't you stay friends ? ( cause y'all know its wrong lol )

Listen...
If people could separate their emotion that easy, everybody would be friends with their ex lol

Hey it's hard to fight temptation...i know it is ( trust me )
But it is possible people..if you really try :)

Soccer Queen!

Everybody knows that i love soccer lol.
I watch alotta soccer everyday ( bad huh ).
I must confess that i don't watch that much female soccer, but if you are as talented as this gurl right here....WOW!
One of the best out there! If you don't know her.. BE ASHAMED! lol

ADDICTED!

I'm back people!
I'm listening to some music ( like always ) , and this song from one of my fav singers starts playing and i get so emotional...
This artist is such a beautiful woman and so talented!
We are truely blessed for her to express it and show it to the world!
I will love her music forever cause it's timeless....
She's worth more than gold to me..

So when the new album drops i'll be hooked again! ( CANT WAIT!!! )
But for now i'ma share what i'm listening to with you guys!

LOVE HER!!

Despite what people say about her performace at the AMA's, no one can deny that they use to dance their ass off to her music ( atleast i did ).
And this performance had some songs!! Oh myyy...
I don't care if she lip sync whenever she performs, i mean she has the right to...
'To me it's just bringing back the good old days...
I'm gettin all excited again love the classic video moves i use to struggle with lol.

Why wouldn't you want that??

Hey people...
There is another subject me and friends discuss alot, but we can't figure it out yet :(
I hope some of you women can help us shed some light on the subject.

Okay..

A while ago i was talking to girl i know.
We were talking about sex ( don't we always lol ).
She told me that she doesn't want to receive any, she only wants to give...
Can you believe how shocked i was????
So i asked her why don't you wanna receive any?!
The only thing she said was : " just because "
She got a little agitated, so i left it at that.

I don't need to get into why i can not believe it lol, but i do want to know why some women choose not to receive ( this girl i know isn't the only one ).

Can somebody out there explain this to me? '

What are you?

What are you?
	Lesbian
	Hetrosexual
	Bi-sexual
	Not sure yet
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Who's your favorite Kardashian??

Who's your favorite Kardashian?
	Khloe
	Kourtney
	Kim
	All three :)
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Khloe seems like a really fun girl and i think she's hot , beautiful and sexy!

I think Kourtney is really sexy and beautiful!

Kim is so sexy and beautiful!

I voted for Kourtney :)

Born a lesbian or became a lesbian? #2

Okay...my friends just left, and guess what?
I got out numbered again... lol
So i guess i have to really look into it.

As i look back at my life, there might have been signs.

Growning up i never had gay or lesbian people around me ( or atleast not that i know of ) , and i never ever had thoughts about other women.
My mother or father never sat me down to have a convo about sex,and i bet they wouldn't bring up the gay and the lesbian part ( i'll explain that later ).
So it was actually a very unknown area to me.
But that of course changed lol.

Let's start with my high school period.
It amazing how many friends i had..mostly girls, but that's a normal thing in high school...right?
It became really intereseting when this girl trasfered from another school to my school.
I thought well , shes new here and she has no friends so let me go talk to her.
We developed a funny relationship ( looking back...it wasn't very normal lol ).
Between classes we would sit outside with another friend of mine ( also a lesbian now lol ).
I wore glasses back then and she would take them , and we would play " teacher and the student " lmao ( crazy! ).

She would be the teacher and i would be the bad student (after-school detention ).
She would take the glasses put them on and usually say something , i don't exactly remember what ( probably something about how bad i had been lol ) and then approach me kinda in a sexual way ( atleast that's how i look at it now ).
Back then it was just fun.
She would also walk by the classroom ( full glass windows ) and grab her tits together to distract me ( i guess lol ).
Thinking about stuff like that, makes me wonder...

Why was i picked to do those things with?
And why was it a normal thing to do?

I don't even wanna start telling you guys how much drama some of my high-school friendships caused.
These girls were really possessive and agressive and very serious when it came to that shit lol.
I would become friends when every new girl and she had to be very careful around my other friends lol.
For some reason i was friends with all the women, though they all had their own click and there was animosity between the clicks.
I will never forget that one moment when i became friends with this sophomore student.

Listen.... i was not the type ( still won't do it ) that wanted to lock arms with girls ,but she didn't really care lol.
She was excited to do so and preferd to do it infront of my friends ( i still don't know why they didn't like her ).
And when she sort of kissed me infront of my best friend, it almost resulted into a fight! ( yes i said kissed me ).

Again:

Why was i picked to do those things?
And why was this a normal thing to do?

As i look back, i think i kinda liked it, cause i sure didn't mind!
I also picked specific girls... the hated girls most of the time lol. ( now why would i wanna do that ? ).
I also let this all happen.. and i know i forgot about enough things that happend back then,but to be able to answer these questions i had to digg up a few things.
I must say that up untill this point i had never linked any of this to a sexual feeling, i just didn't think that way ..yet.

I also remember something really disturbing lol.
When i was about 16 years old i met this woman, and she was the first woman i looked at and seriously thought WOW! , shes pretty ( very innocent ).
I thought that was a normal thing to say about another woman, but i really really got captured by her beauty.
I was extra happy when we would hang out also because she was/is one of the sweetest women i know.
At that age i still didn't like it to anything sexual.

2 years later at the age of 18, it was a diffrent story lol.
This time i met this girl on the internet, and she was a lesbian!!
I know i said i never had bad thoughts about gay people, but i might have thought about them in a very stereotypical way lol.
I kinda thought that most lesbians, well all lesbians were butch looking ...so bad now i know...and now i kinda look like a butch myself lmao! ( so bad ).

But this girl was nothing like i thought a lesbian would look like ( shocking huh )...
HEY! i had never met lesbian people : (
But she was hot!, and i was shocked when she told me that she liked me..and this is where it all began...
I was shocked because i thought...well you're a woman..how can i be with a woman?
That's just weird lol.
This was such a battle, but i finally reached a point where i asked myself: why not be with a woman?

And that's when i think i was becoming a lesbian lol

My parents reacted really shocked!
I never told them myself but i got some help with it...
I felt really pressured , because i wasn''t that sure yet...
I thought about my sad parents and about what the rest of my family might think!
I have a very good relationship with most people in my family,but i was still scared.

So i remember this one night i was hanging out with my cousin and a family friend, and they were having a hard time...
I actually already felt what they wanted ask me..
So finally this friend just asks me : " are you a lesbian ? "
I was quiet for a min and said : " NO! i'm not "
My cousin was like " see i told you she would say no " lmao
So that was the moment when my family found out.
They were like come on Djenna....its obvious...i still need to ask them why it was obvious .
None of them made it an issue. ( love them for that !! )

Years later, im sure.. I am a lesbian and my parents accept it now... ( thankful for that ).

These are some moments i could remember clearly...
So now you tell me...
Did i became a lesbian or was i born a lesbian?


*Bonus Info*

Yes i have been with men, i had crushes on men and i never felt forced to be with men.
This all kinda stopped when i was 18 ( had other things on my mind by then lol )
I still don't think badly about men, i can still confirm when a man is hot or not lol.
Only sexually not needy ( i will never say never ).

Was i born a lesbian or did i become a lesbian?

I think me and my friends have this discussion atleast 2 times a year.
Most of my friends say that you are born with it, but i'm not convinced yet.
I think i became a lesbian lol.

Well tonight i'm meeting my friends, and we will discuss this issue again.
I will blog the outcome of it all later on.

Queen Of Pop!

I'm a really big 80s fan! ( Bring it back !!! )
To me Madonna is truely the queen of pop.
I'm not gonna get into it right now lol.
But i will later on! :)

This song right here is one of my fav Madonna songs ever.
Actually a sad song, but i used to dance my ass off lol.




Just felt like sharing it with y'all.


Now y'all can tell me what your fav song is.
And don't respond if you don't like Madonna!

I know it's not right to swear! But i'd say: GD!

Okay...
Im calm and relaxed now lol.

But the first time that i saw this woman i was shocked!
I was like, how can anybody look that HOT and SEXY?!?! ( i probably say that alot but anywayz lol ).
At first i didn't even noticed the bald head!
Can you imagine? lol
But this woman has it all!
From the sexappeal to the style.
And after some research, i found out something very interesting.

Babygirl had a relationship with a woman!

Some might wonder why that so interesting?
Now i know shorty's also confident with her sexuality.
Meaning that she's bi-sexual, and i don't blame her.
Some people have the right not to choose just one gender.
Equal option for both men and women, that's such a noble thing to do lol.
On that note i say that it ain't bad to have a dream right? ( Whishful thinking ).
But i would suck a dick just to..uhm..Okay..i wouldn't really lol ( but y'all understand ).

So women, tell me what you think!
Am i exaggerating?

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UP Close And Personal

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Hi There!

Hi There people :)
Im kinda new to bloggin so please don't get mad if it might not be all that good just now lol
I will take my time to make sure that i can provide you guys with interesting material.
This blog is called Lesbian View On Women ( i might disappoint a few people lol ).
But on the otherhand why wouldn't you wanna talk about other women? Women do it and men do it ( that's for sure ).



Now some might wonder why i would wanna blog about such a common "thing" ?
There are probably 100000 other blogs discussing this beautiful gift called women :).
I started this blog, cause i want to express my own vision on women ,and to discuss certain issues about lesbian, bi/hetro women.
And boy, do i have alotta questions!
So all you diehard bloggers, be sure to favorite my blog lol!



Thats enough for now, i think the blog will speak for it self :)